Get Married in Italy as a US Citizen | From Kiss Me Italy – Italian wedding planners with over 30 years of experience
Getting married in Italy is the dream of thousands of American couples every year, but navigating Italian legal requirements can seem complicated. As the Kiss Me Italy team, Italian wedding planners with over 30 years of experience assisting international couples, we’ve helped hundreds of American citizens realize their dream Italian wedding.
This complete guide explains everything you need to know about legal requirements, necessary documents, timelines, and costs, with verified information from official sources (U.S. Embassy in Italy, Italian Consulates).
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The Fundamental Decision: Legal Marriage or Symbolic Ceremony?
Before starting any preparation, you must decide which type of ceremony you want:
Legal Civil Marriage (Legally Binding)
Legally recognized in both Italy and the United States.
Pros:
✅ One marriage, recognized everywhere
✅ Italian marriage certificate valid internationally
✅ Option to choose historic venues (City Halls, Palaces)
Cons:
⚠️ Complex documentation (2-3 months preparation)
⚠️ Bureaucratic costs: €800-1,500 for assistance
⚠️ Ceremony in Italian (interpreter mandatory if you don’t speak Italian)
⚠️ Less flexibility on dates and times
Total documentation cost: €1,000-1,500 (source: Italian wedding planner market data)

Symbolic Ceremony (Non-Legally Binding)
Not legally valid – you’ll need to marry legally in the US.
Pros:
✅ Zero Italian bureaucracy
✅ Total flexibility on location, times, content
✅ Personalized ceremony in any language
✅ Reduced costs (no legal documentation)
✅ Stress-free planning
Cons:
⚠️ Need separate civil marriage in the US
⚠️ No legal Italian certificate
Symbolic celebrant cost: €500-1,000 (source: Italian wedding market)

Kiss Me Italy Recommendation
About us: Alessandra Ferretti, with 30 years of experience, advises:
“90% of American couples we assist choose symbolic ceremony in Italy + simple legal marriage in the US (courthouse). They get all the Italian magic without bureaucratic stress, and the US legal marriage is much simpler and faster.”
Get Married in Italy as a US Citizen: For the rest of this guide, we’ll focus on requirements for legal civil marriage, but also provide information on symbolic ceremonies.
Required Documents for Legal Civil Marriage
Official source: U.S. Embassy & Consulates in Italy
1. Valid US Passport
- Required: Passport with minimum 6 months validity
- Armed Forces members: Can present Military ID instead of passport
- Cost: $130 (US adult passport)
2. Birth Certificate
Specific requirements:
- Format: Long-form (complete certificate, not extract)
- Original or certified copy
- With Apostille (see below)
- Sworn Italian translation
Where to obtain:
- Vital Records Office of your birth state
- Time: 2-4 weeks
- Cost: $15-50 (varies by state)
3. Apostille on Birth Certificate
What is an Apostille:
Official stamp certifying document authenticity for international use (Hague Convention).
Where to obtain:
- Secretary of State of your birth state
- Time: 1-3 weeks
- Cost: $2-25 (varies by state)
Important: The Apostille must be on the same document as the birth certificate, not separate.
4. Proof of Termination of Previous Marriages (If Applicable)
If divorced or widowed, you must provide:
For divorced:
- Final Decree of Divorce (final divorce decree)
- With Apostille
- Sworn Italian translation
For widowed:
- Death Certificate of former spouse
- With Apostille
- Sworn Italian translation
Time: 2-4 weeks to obtain documents
Apostille cost: $2-25 per state
5. Atto Notorio (Affidavit of Marital Status)
Fundamental document declaring under oath that there are no legal impediments to your marriage.
Where to obtain:
- US Consulate in Italy (Rome, Milan, Florence, Naples)
- Must be done in person in Italy
- Requires appointment (book 2-4 weeks in advance)
Cost: $50 USD (source: U.S. Embassy Italy)
Time: 15-30 minute appointment
Documents needed for Atto Notorio:
- US passport
- Birth certificate with Apostille and translation
- Any divorce decree/death certificate
6. Nulla Osta (Certificate of No Impediment)
The final document that the Italian Municipality requires to celebrate the marriage.
How to obtain:
- Get Atto Notorio at US Consulate
- Sworn Italian translation of Atto Notorio
- Legalization at local Italian Prefecture
- Submission to Municipality to obtain Nulla Osta
Total process cost: €200-400
Time: 1-2 weeks after Atto Notorio
Validity: 6 months

Sworn Translations: Essential Requirement
All US documents must be translated into Italian by certified translator.
Documents to translate:
- Birth certificate
- Divorce decree (if applicable)
- Death certificate (if applicable)
- Atto Notorio
Where to do them:
- In Italy: Sworn translator registered with Court registry
- In US: Certified translator + Apostille on translation
Costs:
- Per document: €50-150
- Estimated total: €200-500 per couple
Our Kiss Me Italy service includes: Coordination with trusted certified translators.
Complete Timeline: How Much Time Is Needed?
Absolute Minimum: 3 Months Before Wedding
3-4 months before:
- Request birth certificates
- Obtain Apostilles on certificates
- Request divorce decrees/death certificates (if necessary)
2-3 months before:
- Arrange sworn translations
- Book US Consulate appointment in Italy
- Plan Italy trip for paperwork
6-8 weeks before:
- Italy trip
- Consulate appointment for Atto Notorio
- Start Nulla Osta process with Municipality
4 weeks before:
- Receive final Nulla Osta
- Confirm ceremony details with Municipality
- Complete marriage registration
Wedding day:
- Civil ceremony at Municipality
- Witnesses present (2 required)
- Receive Italian marriage certificate

Total Costs: Realistic Budget
Complete Legal Documents Breakdown
Item | Cost |
---|---|
Birth certificates (2) | $30-100 |
Apostilles (2-4 documents) | $10-100 |
Sworn translations | €200-500 |
Consulate Atto Notorio (2) | $100 |
Nulla Osta process | €200-400 |
Italy trip for paperwork | $1,000-2,000 |
Wedding planner assistance | €800-1,500 |
TOTAL | €1,500-3,000 |
Note: Kiss Me Italy service includes complete documentation management in our wedding planning package (€10,000-15,000).
The Value of Professional Assistance
Why Hire a Wedding Planner for Documentation
Alessandra Ferretti explains:
“Documentation for legal marriages in Italy is complex and any error causes delays of weeks. Over 30 years, we’ve developed relationships with Consulates, Municipalities, and certified translators that accelerate the process and guarantee zero errors.”
What our documentation service includes:
✅ Personalized checklist for your specific situation
✅ Coordination with US Consulate and appointment booking
✅ Management of trusted certified translators
✅ Interface with Italian Municipality for Nulla Osta
✅ 24/7 assistance for questions and problems
✅ Backup plans for unexpected issues
Service cost: Included in our complete wedding planning package
Symbolic Ceremony: The Simple Alternative
How It Works
- Legally marry in the US (courthouse, 30 minutes, $50-150)
- Dream symbolic ceremony in Italy (any exclusive location)
- Zero Italian bureaucracy
Benefits for American Couples
Total Flexibility:
- Any location (Portofino, Venice, Tuscany, beaches, yachts, private villas)
- Any day/time
- Ceremony in English or bilingual
- Complete text and ritual customization
Reduced Costs:
- Symbolic celebrant: €500-1,000
- No documentation costs
- More budget for venue and celebration
Identical Experience:
- Guests experience the same emotion
- Identical photos and videos
- Unforgettable memories
Legal US Marriage + Italy Ceremony: Best of Both Worlds
Many couples do:
- Friday afternoon: US Courthouse wedding (immediate family)
- Following weekend: Italy trip
- Saturday evening: Welcome dinner
- Sunday: Luxury symbolic ceremony + reception
- Monday: Farewell brunch
Result: Legally married + dream Italian celebration, zero bureaucratic stress.

Specific Requirements for Popular Destinations
Portofino / Liguria Wedding
Municipality: Santa Margherita Ligure or Portofino
Civil venue: Villa Durazzo, City Hall
Documentation: Standard Italian
Our advantage: Established relationships with Santa Margherita Municipality
Venice Wedding
Popular municipalities: Venice (Palazzo Cavalli), Mestre
Civil venue: Palazzo Cavalli (Grand Canal), Ca’ Vendramin Calergi
Special notes: High demand, book 12+ months in advance
Our team: Danilo Leo Lazzarini, Venice expert
Tuscany Wedding
Popular municipalities: Florence, Siena, San Gimignano, Chianti areas
Civil venue: Historic palaces, municipal villas
Documentation: Standard Italian
High season: April-October (book early)
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
Q: How far in advance should I start the process?
A: Minimum 3 months, ideal 4-6 months to avoid stress.
Q: Can I do everything remotely from the US?
A: No, you must come to Italy for the US Consulate appointment (Atto Notorio). Plan 3-5 days in Italy 6-8 weeks before the wedding.
Q: Is the Italian certificate valid in the US?
A: Yes, with Italian Apostille + certified English translation it’s recognized in all US states.
Q: Can we marry in a Catholic church?
A: Yes, but requires additional documentation (baptism certificates, pre-marriage courses). We recommend specialized wedding planner assistance.
Q: What’s the total cost of legal vs symbolic wedding?
A:
- Legal: +€1,500-3,000 documentation costs
- Symbolic: €500-1,000 celebrant, zero bureaucracy

Conclusion: Our Recommendation
For most American couples wanting a luxury Italian wedding, symbolic ceremony offers the best balance between Italian magic and practical simplicity.
If you choose legal marriage, assistance from experienced Italian wedding planners like Kiss Me Italy is essential to:
- Navigate complex bureaucracy
- Avoid costly mistakes
- Save time and stress
- Guarantee everything is perfect
With over 30 years of experience assisting international couples, we manage every aspect of documentation while you focus on enjoying your special day.
Start Planning Today
Contact Kiss Me Italy for personalized consultation on documentation and planning your dream Italian wedding.
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